WHY THIS SHOW OF SHAME?

The show of shame is a term used to describe the act of exposing oneself to public humiliation. This can take many forms, but the most common form is being publicly shamed for committing some type of crime.

 

In this case, we are going to expose ourselves to public humiliation by showing how much money we spend on our cannabis crops. We have decided that we would like to share with you what we spend on our cannabis plants each year.

We hope that you enjoy watching us get humiliated!

I must admit that although this Keke riding business is a tedious one, however, it is also very exciting because it has afforded me the chance to hear a lot of things from my various passengers each day I go out, which in the long run has taught me a lot of things too.

  

I carried four female choristers on a normal ride as they were going to church. They were going to church after church i.e. communion service. They were jointly discussing a topic that clearly pointed to a show of shame involving someonethey know.

  

The person who initiated the discussion asked the others whether they have seen a particular sister lately. And the others said they have been seeing her. Then she went on to say she is wondering how she could have allowed herself to be talked into getting involved in such a despicable act of allowing one man to sleep with her and two other of her friends at the same time. 

She went on to say that the lady said after the incident had taken place, she has become so embarrassed and ashamed of herself particularly after she took control of herself later on and then came to see that the man her friends took her to go and have group sex with under the influence of being highly intoxicated with alcohol, is the very person who has been assisting her before then without her being sexually involved with him.  

She said those her friends took her out for flexing in the lounge of a hotel where the man was lodging but unknown to her. They ate barbecued fish and roasted meat as well as seasoned snails lavishly and also drank strong drinks which made her become somewhat tipsy and in very high spirits. But when she told her friends she has had enough and wanted to go home as she was feeling like sleeping, they told her not to worry as they have a room in that hotel to sleep and then they led her upstairs to a big air-conditioned room that was a suite.

 

Show of shame How the show begins

She went on to narrate to her that on getting to the room upstairs, her friend stripped and stood naked and also urged her to strip like them. At first on hearing their instruction that she should strip, she resisted them and they walked up to her and started peeling her clothes off her. 

And being also high i.e. semi-drunk, she could not really resist them since she had also thought it was just the three of them that were in that room. After they have helped her out of her clothes, they encouraged her to go to the bed and lie down, an advice she said she was too glad to accept as she was feeling very sleepy by then.

 

She continued telling her that since the room was air-conditioned, it did not take her long to dose off into the realm of sleep. But that it was not long after she had drifted partially into sleep that she had a faint drowsy feeling that a man was already inside her and was thrusting seriously in and out of her. 

 

With that state of semi-drunkenness, she made to stand up, she couldn’t because the man had her securely pinned down while still taking her sexually and since she was half-drunk and devoid of much strength to struggle, she gave in to the man until she climaxed with the man and thereafter actually slept off until the next morning when the moaning sound from one of those her friends as the man was taking her sexually that early morning woke her up suddenly. Only for her to see that she was stark naked in bed with her friends equally stark naked with a naked man who was already making love to one of them.

 

She said her shock was more deepened and compounded when she realized who the naked man was. She also said that she asked her friend who was nearby what was the meaning of what she was seeing? And that the friend told her not to worry as they will explain everything in detail to her later. 

She told her that she was too embarrassed to face the man as she was thinking within her how the man was taking her now. But what perplexed her was how the man was acting as if everything was normal and even went on to equally become sexually involved with the other friend in front of her and the other friend he had made love to earlier that morning. 

She said looking at the whole scene was so disgusting to her as that was her first time of seeing and being involved in a group sex scene. Anger was welding up inside her as she was dressing and then she demanded to be allowed out of that hotel room after she made it known to her friends how angry and disappointed she was with them. And that after the shameful incident, she became too embarrassed and hated herself for ever accepting to go out for  flexing with those her friends that very evening.

  

One of those choristers chipped in that maybe that could be the reason why she was no longer regular in attending church programmes as she has been so embarrassed over that incident and was feeling highly used and taken advantage of by her friends and the man who had sex with her in her state of semi-drunkenness. Another one said, “Come to think of it, even if she herself was a very wayward prostitute, she can’t even imagine how she will be in bed with other women even if they were to be her best friends and allow one man to make love to all of them at the same period.” The third one also chipped in and said, “God forbid bad thing!”

  

I then reasoned within me and said silently, “So it is a bad thing for women to allow one man to be sexually involved with them at the same time?” But to me, I had thought such experimentation with sex is what is now in vogue. It seems to be the new sex trend i.e. what is trending sexually. 

This is because most young women are now willing and ready to go in pairs to receive a man with a high libido (high sex drive). Some men are no longer satisfied making love to only one woman at a go maybe because of the energy booster drugs they take prior to having sex. So they ask their girlfriends or lovers to come with another of their friend or two to meet with them in a designated hotel, i.e. for those who can’t take these multiple lovers home for the sex orgy.

  

Is STD One of the Shows of Shame?

These women accept such requests because they know that these men will pay them handsomely at the end of it all. So they are now on the lookout for such openings. Most times, when you see two girls going together to a hotel, it does not mean that they are going there to meet their separate lovers. Both of them normally go there just for one man, and that seems to be cool these days with such girls.

  

Now the crux of the matter is that if it so happened that the big man they are going to meet sexually has HIV/AIDS or any other sexually transmitted disease (STD), he will pass it to both of them and they will in turn take it out and spread to other men that they will also meet who will in turn spread it to other women they will equally meet. And the cycle of spread of the HIV/AIDS or other STDs will become a vicious cycle.

  

Most times, these girls cannot summon the courage to tell the big men they go to meet sexually to use condom because they do not want to offend those big men with such frontal requests so that these men can give them big cash at the end of the sex act plus big STDs too to go and spread around unknowingly.

 

 These days, whenever a woman is being asked for a date by her male friends and she asks, “Please can I also come with my friend or friends?” Most times it will turn out that those are her partners in the sex crime. So as they go to sit out and flex together, that is how they will go together to have sex with one man. 

This practice of several women going to sleep with one man mostly take place amongst lesbian friends who are also heterosexual. They are not hardcore lesbians who are resourceful and well able to take care of themselves financially and otherwise devoid of any form of support or inputs from men. These heterosexual lesbians accepts to also get involved with resourceful men in order to give them money so that they can meet their various needs.

  

With the kind of despicable things happening all around us nowadays, what on earth is actually happening? It never used to be like this before now. How then did this show of shame begin and why? Is it due to hard times? Or is it simply just the coming on of one of the signs of the end time? What do you think?