What happens at Deep penetration during sexual intercourse

   

    This will ensure the deposition of the sperm close to the cervix. At the time of ejaculation, it is necessary for the man to maintain a deep penetration and deposit the sperm close to the cervix which is the entrance to the womb. At this time, body movements should be reduced to the barest minimum. This way, the spermatozoa have a shorter distance to swim through to the waiting egg in the Fallopian tube. It also escapes any acidic condition in the vagina and so its active performance is not slowed down. This is desirable because the secretion within the cervix and womb will be highly alkaline.

     Vagina penetration from the rear is the recommended position. This Dr. Shettles says helps ensure deposition of the sperm at the entrance of the womb.
For deeper penetration at the time of ejaculation and to ensure the deposition of the sperm at the entrance of the womb, it is recommended that the man enters from the rear. The couple may not necessarily start with the rear entry as this method does not allow for much romantic displays but may resort to it before ejaculation. This may be just before you work yourselves up to the crescendo called orgasm.
 

      However, the decision to start with the rear entry or not is best made by the couple. Actually there are many styles of the rear entry. The woman can lie face down or kneel down with her chest touching the bed or any other combination of positions that will make it easy for the man to have an easy and deep penetration from behind while also performing some acrobatic displays. Previous preliminary rehearsals will help to perfect the acts before the final "match" Prior abstinence is necessary; intercourse should be avoided completely from the beginning of the monthly cycle until after the day of ovulation. This helps to ensure maximum sperm count, a factor favouring the Y Chromosome.

As a matter of fact, the man needs a rich store of semen to be able to deliver very well. Contained in the semen are seminal fluids, sperm cells and other secretions produced in glands and vesicles of the man's reproductive system. The semen is the milky fluid that is discharged by the man at the time of ejaculation. The seminal fluid some of which is emitted from the male organ before or during sexual intercourse helps to lubricate the vagina and also serve as the medium through which the spermatozoa swim to reach their destination. Therefore, if the fluidity of the semen is low, the spermatozoa will have a very poor medium in which to swim.

 
Unfortunately, this poor condition affects the Y Chromosome more adversely than the X Chromosome. The Y Chromosome will normally be more active and faster in a rich amount of semen. To this extent, it is advisable that the man abstains from sex from the beginning of the cycle until after the day of ovulation. An average man needs about two weeks to restore maximum storage of semen.

One other reason for total abstinence is the need to create an assurance that no fertilization of the egg occurs before the time desired. Any sexual intercourse before ovulation will create an uncertainty that may introduce doubts more so if the couple encroaches on the unsafe period. If however a man thinks he is capable of replenishing his store of semen in less than two weeks or he is not willing to starve himself or abstain for the two weeks, he should make sure that they do not encroach on the unsafe period of the wife's menstrual cycle or may take a protective measure.

From the foregoing, if the above mentioned six steps are followed meticulously, the right timing and conditions would have been created for the choice of a male offspring. It also implies that the absence of one factor or step may affect the result. For example, a cold reception or frigidity from the woman even when the intercourse is well timed may not bring the desired results.

 

The Procedure for the Choice of Female Offspring.

Earlier, the fact has also been established that if the X Chromosome sperm (which produces girls) from the man is the first to fertilize the egg, the outcome is a baby girl.

Therefore, the procedure for the choice of female offspring involve assisting or creating a favourable environment and conditions for the X chromosome sperm to fertilize the egg.

Also, the X Chromosome sperm possesses some unique characteristics that distinguish it from the Y Chromosome sperm. The X Chromosome sperm has an oval shaped head, larger in size, heavier, slow in movement, lives longer and smaller in quantity than the Y Chromosome in one ejaculation. In addition, it remains active in a dry and acidic environment whereas the Y Chromosome is hindered and may die fast in a dry and acidic environment. To this extent, two main factors are similarly required for the effective performance of the X Chromosome sperm- timing and a conducive environment.

For the choice of a female offspring, the following steps should be taken;

1. Intercourse should cease two or three days before ovulation. Timing is the most important factor. It has been mentioned that the X Chromosome sperm has a longer life span than the Y Chromosome sperm. It means that in a quantity of spermatozoa discharged during ejaculation into the female reproductive system, the X Chromosome sperm will normally outlive the Y Chromosome sperm. If therefore sexual intercourse should cease two or three days before ovulation, the Y Chromosome sperm and the X Chromosome sperm will both have to wait in the Fallopian tube for the ovulation to take place and for the ovum to arrive. In the process of waiting, the Y Chromosome sperm which has a shorter span of life will die before ovulation while the X Chromosome sperm will outlive it and end up fertilizing the ovum to produce a baby girl. This has been the pattern with many couples. Usually, because a couple has decided that the woman should get pregnant at a point in time, they will normally continue to have sexual intercourse immediately after menstruation. Few days to ovulation, diminishing return will set in for both of them. The man's performance will drop, his semen will have low seminal fluid, and both of them may not be very keen for sex any more at this period of time. This way, the right condition for the X Chromosome sperm to fertilize the ovum would have been created.
 

2. Intercourse should be immediately preceded on each occasion, by acidic douche consisting of two tablespoonful of white venigar to a quart of water. The timing as in 1 above might be enough to ensure female offspring, but the douche makes success all the more likely since the acidic environment  enhances the performance of the X Chromosome sperm.
 
Every attempt to immobilize the Y Chromosome sperm and enhance the chances of the X Chromosome sperm is needed in this calculation. Since the Y chromosome sperm is active and favourably disposed m an alkaline environment, improving the acidic condition in the vagina will guarantee the X Chromosome sperm better chances. This is because the X Chromosome sperm is able to perform better in such acidic environment.
 
Douching with an acidic solution may be necessary but not compulsory as good results can also be achieved without it since the vagina itself is capable of maintaining an acidic condition in the absence of alkaline secretions or douche. If the wife normally has orgasm, she should try to avoid it. Orgasm increases the flow of alkaline secretions, and these could neutralize or weaken the acidic environment that enhances the performance of the X Chromosome sperm.
 
To avoid alkaline secretion in such quantity that may neutralize the acidic condition in the vagina, little or no foreplay and romance are required before and after the sexual intercourse.

 GETTING THE RIGHT A JOB FOR TWO

3.  The important formula in any assignment requiring team efforts is cooperation. This is not less true for all couples. usually, couples have many things in common and are expect ted to accomplish tasks with the most refined team spirit. Unfortunately, this is not very true of most couples.

Many are even more guilty of these inadequacies especially on issues pertaining to family planning, sexual relationship and choosing the sex of the baby among others. Many spouses don't even discuss pertinent issues that relate to their sexual lives nor do they know much about each other's sexual needs or sexuality. Man men, for example, know that their spouses menstruate regularly but know little or no details about it. Many more do not know nor care to know anything about ovulation, safe and unsafe periods. Some even think that family planning is meant for women only and that the inability or failure of a woman to bear or have a particular sex of the baby is totally her fault. More worrisome is the fact that many women too are equally as ignorant as their husbands. Therefore, the need for the two to get educated and handle these areas of their marital lives meaningfully becomes imperative.

 
4. Shallow penetration by the male at the time of ejaculation is recommended. Again, this helps make certain that the sperms are exposed to the acid in the vagina and must swim through it to get to the cervix. This will expose both Y and X Chromosome sperms to the acidic condition in the vagina. As they swim through, the Y Chromosome sperm is hindered and the X Chromosome sperm is favoured.
 
 
5. The face to face or missionary position should be assumed during intercourse. This makes it less likely that sperms will be deposited directly at the mouth of the cervix where they might escape the acidic environment of the vagina.
 
 
6. No abstinence from intercourse is necessary from the time after menstruation until after the final intercourse two or three days before ovulation. A low sperm count and low seminal fluid in the semen increase the possibility of female offspring. So, frequent intercourse prior to the final attempt three days before ovulation may actually help.